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Beauty and Physical Attractiveness

IDEAS OF BEAUTY
            How do you define beauty, using your own words?
            What makes one person more attractive than another?
            Does beauty affect one's success in life?
     * Do attractive people have an easier life?
          > How / Why?
            Do you treat people differently depending on their attractiveness?
     * Is this fair?
     * Are you nicer to attractive people?
           > Same sex vs. opposite sex?  



Y = a threat so you don't like them
Z
= so out of your league that pose no threat so you like them

ATTRACTIVENESS AND PERSONALITY
            BRAINS x BEAUTY x AVAILABILITY = CONSTANT
            Do attractive people have different personalities than regular people?

^Is this all true?

            What are some of the negatives about being beautiful?
     * Treated as an object / always stared at      
     * Assumed to be stupid        
     * Judged on what you look like, not who you are inside
FAMOUS BEAUTIES
            Who do you think is the most beautiful person in your country?
            Who do you think is the most beautiful person alive today?
            Who was the most beautiful person in history?
            Is there someone famous that is considered beautiful, that you think is not?
            Who would you say is beautiful that others maybe wouldn't?
            Is beauty related to power?
     * Can you think of anyone who is in a position of power that is not physically attractive?


YOUR BEAUTY:
            How important is beauty in your daily life?
            How long does it take you to get ready?      
     * Is it hard to choose what to wear? (Men just have a suit = not tricky)
            Do people spend too much time and money on beauty?
            Have you ever noticed anyone ever feeling pressured to be more beautiful?
            Is it difficult to dress up smart without looking slutty?

RESPECT
<------------------------------>
NO RESPECT
Masculine
Frumpy
Dowdy
Look un-sexy
  Bimbo
Feel Sexy
Look nice
 

^BUT Metrosexual men manage it!
            Does your personality change depending on what your wear / look like? Why?
            Have you ever used your femininity / sexuality to get what you want (flattery / flirting / show yer boobies...)?
     * Is this a good or bad thing?
     * Is this Anti-feminist?
     * If you do this don't you loose the right to complain if men treat you like objects? 
            Do you find work dress codes restrictive or do you like being forced to look smart? Would you rather wear what you want?


CHOICES ABOUT BEAUTY
            What personality trait is the most important for inner beauty?
            Is it better to be physically attractive or intelligent?
            if I had a magic wand and could make you either:
     * UGLY + CLEVER, or
     * PRETTY + DUMB Which would you choose?

- Which would you choose for your children
            Is it better to be physically attractive or wealthy?
CHANGING VIEWS OF BEAUTY
            Is a tan sexy? Which age group think what?
            Has it always been thin = sexy (Botticelli pictures are fatter / Marilyn Monroe was a size 16)
            Is the modern beauty image a realistic aim for regular people?
CHOOSING A PARTNER:
            What qualities do you look for in a partner?
            Would you choose a partner with beauty or brains? Would other people agree?
            Do opposites attract?
            Does beauty depend on confidence?
     * What's so attractive about confidence anyway?
     * US study where football team paid to ask unattractive girl to the prom - guy #1 didn't want to, guy #6 did because she had become more confident and also hotter
            Is beauty really in the eye of the beholder? / Can love be blind?
     * Do you have any proverbs or idioms from your country that relate to beauty?
     * Could you marry an ugly person? Is beauty only skin deep?
          > Are you that shallow??
            Is it a bad thing to think about people in terms of their attractiveness / judge someone for their looks/appearance?
     * Is it a bad thing to not consider dating someone who isn't a 'hottie'?


            Men want women who are:
     * Submissive / dominant / HIGH-MAINTENANCE / trophy wife
     * Younger / older
     * Richer
          >Is it bad if the woman earns more (shutter man / kept man)

BIOLOGY:
     * Taller / shorter
     * Sexiest part: Boobies / butt / legs
     * Blonde / brunette
     * Thin / stocky
     * WHR (Barbie would be infertile!)
            Women want men who are:
LEGOLAS vs. ARAGORN (Mr. Right vs. Mr. Right-now)

Legolas is:
     * Boyish / kind / in touch with emotions / SNAG

Aragorn is:
     * Macho / dominant / exciting / a "bad boy" / arrogant

     * Do you keep choosing "bad boys"? Why if you know they're bad?
     * Do "nice guys finish last"? Why?

Rich?
Would you marry / love a penniless street-sweeper? Would other people?
     * Would you have a Sugar daddy?
     * Would you choose Money or kindness?

BIOLOGY:
     * Taller / shorter
     * Sexiest part: Shoulders / butt / legs / hands
     * Blonde / brunette / BALD
     * Strong jaw / 'V' shape = testosterone


LOW FAT FOOD / DIETING
            Do you buy special low-fat foods?
            Are the following statements true?
     * Marketers are trying to make people feel bad about eating regular food so that they'll buy more low-fat products at higher cost (special K costs a fortune)
     * Diet drinks are made to be 'cool' too
     * Food sizes are being made bigger / smaller
            Ever been on a diet? Would you like to be on one?
     * STAT: 91% of Korean women are currently on a diet.

What's the best diet?
     * Atkins / crash / cabbage-only

How long have you been on your diet?

What's the most you've lost?
            How do you know if you are fat?
            Do you think people who are fat can be happy?
            Does eating make you feel guilty?
            How often do you weigh yourself / look in the mirror?
            Do you "Yo-Yo" diet?
            Will science develop a "miracle pill" that stops people gaining weight / help them lose weight?
     * Would you take it?
            Ever tried 'diet pills'?
            What's the perfect weight?
     * Talk about BMI
EATING PROBLEMS
            Are there problems with the following in Korea:
     * Bulimia
     * Anorexia
     * " Ana" websites



COSMETIC SURGERY
            Do you think people should have cosmetic surgery to enhance their looks?
     * If so what is the minimum age when someone should have plastic surgery?
           

How popular is plastic surgery in your country?
     * Do you know anyone who has had it?

            What is the most popular feature for cosmetic alteration?
     * Nose / eyelids / boobs / ass
            Is liposuction / stomach stapling (bariatric surgery) common?
            Would you ever consider having cosmetic surgery?
            Do you think self-esteem affects beauty? (i.e. more confident = more sexy)
            Do you think beauty affects self-esteem? (i.e. more pretty = more confident)
BODY ART
            Do you think people with many tattoos can be beautiful?
     * How many tattoos is too many?
     * Would you ever get a tattoo?
     * Do you have a tattoo?
            Do you think people with many piercings can be beautiful?
     * What kind of body piercings, if any, do you feel are acceptable?
     * What kind of piercings, if any, do you feel are unacceptable?
            Do you think people from different countries than you see attractive the same way?
            Are beauty pageants good or bad?
            Should children be entered into beauty pageants?
GENERAL
            Do you think one gender or group worries more about beauty than another?