Being Tense…
When
you get stressed your muscles start to tense up leading to
pain and more stress. The first thing to do then, is
to stop this tensing response and relax your muscles.
The problem is, although most people can tell when
their muscles are tensed, they usually don't notice till they are completely stressed out.
You therefore need to learn what tensed muscles actually
feel like if you're going to do anything about them.
There are two Basic Techniques that are the most effective: Progressive
Muscular Relaxation (PMR) and Autogenic
Therapy (AT).